We see different shades of love in our life. Some are true love and some are fake. While some are love forever, where as few are temporary love. Today I want to talk about a specific shade of love or rather most prevalent observed flavor –Induced Love.
Now before you start wondering what is it let me explain what the term induced means. Merriam dictionary says “to cause (something) to happen or exist“. Here our something is love. So basically Induced Love is to cause love to happen or exist. Well it might seem strange how can one cause love to happen, because they say love just happens you cannot make it happen.
Yeah, it might be kind of true for any one of the two persons to be in love. So for the first person to be in love, one cannot make it happen. Love just happens with someone it has to happen. You can’t self induce for it to happen. Depending on your choice list and your interests plus your genetic prints, you might fall in love with one person. That’s how the quote goes. You just fall in love, you can’t make it happen. Cool. First step clear. But then what is this induced love all about.
Well you had your choice list and luckily you fell in love with someone. Now here comes the fun part. Either that person can ‘fall’ in love with you, may be neutral with you or you just don’t exist for that person yet. If you are lucky and the other person also falls in love with you naturally, what’s better you are of the kind the world dreams of. You are one of the example for ‘Marriages are made in heaven‘. Love is a wonderful phenomenon and you are the proof. But but but if that is not the case and if you don’t exist for that person without any further scope then you may be suffering with limerence. Doesn’t hurt much and one of the sweetest form of love. You enjoy the sweetness and suffer from diabetic love may be 😉
Now if neither of this happened, then my friend you will step into the land of induced love. Here you are a person in love with someone who is not yet in love but you see prospects. So you work hard towards building strong connection with the other person, align your interests, habits and likes inline with your prospect beloved. Gradually you enter into the world of your friend. You try out many ways to make the other person feel special. Slowly both of you get to know each other, start liking each other, share thoughts with each other and may be hangout together. A point will come when you will ‘propose’ your love to the person who has been in the induced state of love and eventually accept your love. This my friend is ‘Induced Love’.
Bollywood movies and Indian Authored novels have done enough on their part to spread this concept of Induced Love and various forms of Induction. This has been one of the prevalent form of love since ages. However since the dawn of social media things have changed rapidly and this form of love has seen a rapid growth in numbers and variety as well. It has reached every corner of the world alongside giving rise to in-numerous ways of generating Induced love.
So whichever form of love it may be, if both of them are happy ( truly happy ), then the flavor of love doesn’t matter much what matters is you are tasting one or the other form of LOVE.
Keep Loving 😉