Best friends for life

Throughout adulthood, it is easy to lose touch with old friends and it can be hard to develop new friendships. The digital age has complicated this process as well by changing the way friends interact. As phone calls have been exchanged byΒ text messages and social media has replaced the need for face-to-face interaction, gatherings with friends often become fewer and farther between.

But there is growing evidence that genuine friendships may be very important in terms of your personal and professional life. Even as an adult, friends can have a big influence over how you feel, think and behave. Friends are likely to come and go throughout the seasons of your life. Job changes, moving to a new city, and becoming a parent are among the many things that may shift the friendships in your life. The demands of life and a busy career can move friends to the bottom of the priority list at times.

It may be wise however, to re-evaluate the role friends play in your life. If spending quality time with friends isn’t high on your to-do list, it may make sense to schedule a get-together sooner rather than later. After all, friends impact not just the quality of your life, but perhaps even the length of it.

You see we all have ups and downs. Life is like a sine wave. Our friends are also sine waves, funny isn’t it. Alright, so I have 2 friends (stupid, funny, irritating, idiotic, very smart, ethical, you name it and they have it πŸ˜› ), who are really my counterparts in terms of emotional and fundamental thinking. So there is a day when I have to make one very important decision of life, one of them is there just to get my head clear. Below picture clears how the total sum of each of us is always greater and helps us be cool πŸ™‚

Best Friends for Life – Mood Swings

If you observe carefully, each of us have a up and down cycle. But when we are together, at any point of time, there wouldn’t be a situation or event, that can make us down at the same. We have our limitations, troubles in life, but when we discuss everything seems to be possible. We fight, we hurt, we torture each other, but that is all just fun. We do not judge, we do not discourage, we do not take for granted, we care and more important of the all we evolve and grow together. We do not have the slightest amount of grudge or hatred. We might be angry for one another, but we never, never ever fall apart. We are stupid, we are smart. We talk quantum physics, we talk Doraemon, we go on tour and we support each other. Life is so cool, when we are around. We fall in love with someone when one of us approves and when love falls apart, one of us is there to ensure life still goes on in the right direction. The waveform completely summarizes what friends are and how things can be so cool.

You see, 2 friends are enough for a life time πŸ™‚ Thank you for reading. Think who are your life time friends. You might have more than two then you are lucky. If you do not have one, then it might be time you make one. In the end, have some friends for life time. To the Friends. Cheers.

15 thoughts on “Best friends for life

  1. I love this post, because it’s all so true! We do move in waves, and we’re never down together at the same time. And thanks for reminding me to shake my friends awake and plan a get together someday soon πŸ™‚ Have been postponing for way too long!

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    1. No Ma’m !
      Don’t be misguided by the likes and the comments. πŸ™‚
      Just focus on the content.

      Some of the recent posts, have been updated with some changes and tagged with new details, hence the new time. Likes and comments are from previous state πŸ™‚

      Plus – I have made it an agenda that I won’t be going into the other side of Blogging – Commercializing.

      I am improving day by day and I get new thoughts. I am trying to make this blog a quality one, so deleting unnecessary blogs and improving the ones that are already there.

      Hope this is a good idea, well even then I am glad I finally have a clear mindset about why I blog.

      I might go away for another, deep enlightenment and introspection, this time about Justice, Virtues and Truth. Until that time comes, I want to polish all posts πŸ™‚

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      1. Well, I was telling what’s on my mind πŸ™‚ and if you notice it was all smiles.

        Serious come back as in for the comment ? or a come back after the break I took last year.

        I wanted to convey what I feel, no come back or snapping or zapping, I don’t understand the need and I don’t know how to do that.

        Well, just say, it won’t be more, but quality ones, starting April 1 πŸ™‚

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      1. True friends are few and precious. We meet lots of people along our journey through life but real friends who are there to help us up when we fall are rare. If you find one, keep watering the friendship so it grows and remains with you forever. Thank you for liking my post on too..

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