How to choose what you want !

You must ask for what you want. If you have struggled all your life for the sake of others and because of the situations, you must then strive to grow out of those situations. When you have done that, you must make wise decisions of your choices to land into a place of happiness. The choices you make will determine what you receive back. There might be times when things won’t go the way you think they would, but you will know in your heart that it is the result of your choice and not any compromise.

If you choose to live your life, in the favor of making everyone else happy, you may be happy. You may have a perfect life, depending on the choices you make. You would however not know what would have happen if you made a different choice than what was expected for. You must realize and be clear about your thoughts and your expectations from life.

When you are taking some of the biggest decisions in your life, you must first get your head straight. You must sit calmly, get refreshed and talk to yourself. You must know what is that you truly want.

  • Is it something you are choosing just because someone else is living that way ?
  • Is it something you are choosing because you want to taste a difference ?
  • Is it something you are choosing as a matter of challenge ?

What ever might be your driving force you must realize that you must be true to yourself. You must let go of all the noises, vibrations, influences and be one with your own self.

You should listen to your heart and your mind. Your inner voice will guide you with a direction and if you feel that your thoughts are your own then you may listen to it. @way2heartblog

Future is never certain and the choices you make today based on what seems to right to you, might change with course of time. You just have to accept that you will live through every moment and you will fight for what’s worth. You must embrace life to the fullest.

I hope you make a wise choice.

27 thoughts on “How to choose what you want !

  1. We are fools and will remain as fools

    We are not concerned with this world,
    We are fools and will remain as fools,
    Our only job is to incite internal strife,
    For that, we always search new tools.

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  2. Is it something you are choosing just because someone else is living that way?

    All too true! I have to catch myself from doing that sometimes. This is great!!

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  3. It’s much easier to know what you don’t want. Even if you do follow your heart it can still backfire.Some things you can’t control but that doesn’t mean you have to give up.

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    • Right, there are times, when you have to choose between what you want and what you don’t want. It becomes easier that time.

      But there are other times, when you desire for more in life and you forget or get confused, about what you don’t want and then it all starts to become foggy and blurred, what do you think ?


  4. I think there is no choice but listening to your heart because it’s the way to happiness. Dictating by someone or trying to impress someone, only brings unhappiness in the life.

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    • But a lot of souls, due to the conditions they are born in or the situations that life presents to them, don’t have the clarity or courage to listen to their own heart and they give in to the demands of parents, society, community and so on.

      There is no concrete way to follow, it is a personal choice and what one preference or opts, will decide what decide what is the result.

      In the end, I always feel, the Life just happens.

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      • I wrote a post few days back on, “why do you try to impress other”. If you want, you can read it once. I think that is the perfect reply for this comment

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      • Right, most of what you say is correct and true.

        There are situations when one is not trying to do something for the sake of showcasing or impressing, but by fear, burden or payback to family, lets say for eg of arranged marriage in Indian society.

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  5. Wow Bhanu.. Very inspiring.. True we have to choose what we want and face all the challenges and learn from the struggles. Struggles are for a reason, to make us ready for the challenges of life. Good post. Have a great time bro.. 🙂

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    • Thank you, I am glad you could connect as always. Welcome back. I hope your trip was as exciting as we thought it would be and I will look forward to the stories you have to share.

      Also there are few post like on infidelity, you opinions will be insightful.

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