He moved on ! Why she can’t ?

He was in love with a girl during college. She used to be in constant contact with him but she never expressed her deepest emotions for him. She always feared her family. During the final year of college, he confessed his feelings for her and asked her what she felt and what she wanted. She told him that her elder sister had once experience similar kind of love and at that time her parents didn’t agree. Her sister had to go through lot of trouble and fights. She didn’t want to repeat it. She told him it would never work.

He was sad. It was the worst phase of his life. After college he was working in a job that kept him occupied for most of time. He was broken at heart. He couldn’t forget her. He took to literature and arts. He started reading a lot of books and novels. He started blogging and interacting with lot of new people. He was enjoying the drift in his life and everything seemed to be in good shape.

Meanwhile the girl lost her father, who was suffering from cancer and she was going through tough times. He met her at the funeral and took part in all the ceremonies. He was a moral support to her.

Few months after the incident, she spoke to her mother about him and that she liked him since college. Her mother considered him to be a good guy and she gave her permission if they both were going on well.

He was working in a different city now. He did not have any more romantic feelings for her. He cared for and wished good for her but deep down in his heart he knew he didn’t have any feelings for her. He told her about it, however she wanted to be with him as long as it can be. They were in touch over calls and chat. They met once in a while.

He wanted her to forget him and continue to move on in her life and let him continue to be the way he was. There was no place for her in his Heart as a love partner.

He had one question for her !

Why can’t she move on?

Please share your thoughts in the comments!


16 thoughts on “He moved on ! Why she can’t ?

  1. She also love him but can’t confess because of family problems but when there is no problem she confess that and if boy is not in relationship with anyone he should think once again about her .. Because everytime time is not humble with you And when it is you need to chase that chance

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    1. What if he did consider
      And he wants to be with her
      But inside of him
      He knows
      He doesn’t have that love for her

      Yet then should he be with her for the sake of it or just because he loved in the past or because he is alone ?

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      1. Yup may be …but there must not only love there should be respect understanding and many more think ..if he don’t love her anymore but he should respect her understand her ..than there relationship would be successful

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      2. Hey guys…
        Greetings from heartπŸ’ž..
        Coming to my point I think the guy should accept her…coz even if he doesn’t have feelings for her and also he doesn’t have any other girl in his life…
        Also I think if he loved her wid true feelings then there will be no one he could love again…
        One more thing according to me..to be Loved is more important that to love..πŸ˜‡πŸ˜

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  2. Maybe she couldn’t move on because he was such a rock to her during a terrible time in her life, and somehow she mistook her feelings of comfort for love? Or maybe she needed more time to realise she loves the guy and won’t accept it’s too late (or maybe by hanging out with her she keeps fuelling her hope that maybe one day they’ll be together).

    I am so happy to see you back up and posting social dilemmas again! πŸ™‚

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    1. Well well well all the may be are possible and yes I think I should write more of this sort.

      Hope is what works in this case. As of what I know of people around HOPE is stronger than LOVE itself.

      Happy as we are.
      Ripples around. πŸ™‚

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      1. Hope can be both good and dangerous, we can’t rely on it too much. Love doesn’t have to be forever, although some loves are. Good to hear you’re good πŸ™‚

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      2. Yes, Hope is an interesting aspect of human feelings that has kept us alive for longer than expected on this planet.

        But we do of the hope and in which direction we turn the boat decides what happens of it.

        I have been good. πŸ™‚
        I expect the same for you.

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  3. She can’t move on….
    The couple shouldn’t move on different ways…..

    It was a situation which turned the wheel against dem in opposite direction.

    The boy and girl should open off and talk.

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  4. I think she couldn’t move on because she didn’t wanted to(okay, that’s obvious), but the guy was able to see someone else in her place after things went south(because he’d lose hope). In other case, the girl had hope(it’s one of the most beautiful and strong thing) and she couldn’t replace him. I hope they reach at some valid point in life where either they both be together or the girl moves on. *Fingers crossed*

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