She wants him, but does he ?

She calls her friend to tell about the recent on/offs in her life. She has been talking to a guy lately and she likes him a lot. They met at a matrimonial site and happen to visit at a meeting with parents. It all went fine but the guys mother didn’t like the girl. So they decided to call it off. However for whatever reason, the boy was in touch with her and they happened to have lot of talks. They met few times.

He had spoken to his mother a lot of times, however she never agreed. She didn’t like the looks of the girl. For quite some times things were grey and eventually their discussions were cut short. They were not talking anymore. The girl was sad and confused. She wanted him. She liked him very much but his Mom was never to approve.

She was looking for other guys on her parents orders but she never liked any. She was always looking for him in every guy she met. As she was not talking to him much, it made her sad and weak. She knew it was not working and there was nothing that made her feel hopeful. She decided to tone down her emotions for him. She started to go along in her life and think less about him. She decided to move on or make an attempt to move on.

And then after few weeks, he calls her and they talk. Every time she talks with him, she knows that she is the weak one. She wants him in her life. He made her feel special. He told her that he was making an attempt to convince his mother and meanwhile if she found someone else, she was free to choose so.

The only question that kept her awake all night was –

Should she wait for him or stick to her decision of moving on and forgetting him from her life?

Please share your thoughts in the comments.


13 thoughts on “She wants him, but does he ?

  1. She must move on ..because the guy is making lame excuses just because if he want to marry her he propose him earlier .If his mother did not agreed then why he is wasting time of girl he created confused situation like you want me or not but I have to accept my mother decision?? Of course that girl loves you and want you but if you want to accept your mother decision thn why wasting time of girl … In this situation girl should be realistic ..

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      • Let the force guide her
        For one who is weak within
        It would ages to let go off
        For when you cannot love yourself
        For who you are
        You cannot let go of an idea
        A thought of love from someone
        It is a dilemma and mere desire in your mind
        And the illusion
        A hope of being together
        That lets you drag something unnecessarily

        Until times solves the situation
        She wouldn’t accept it.

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  2. Both. Maybe set a deadline (‘I’ll wait until… [specific date] and if nothing has happened, I’ll move on’).
    It’s too risky to move on right now (what if he convinces his mother and she misses out on someone she clearly fancies a lot?), and she cannot wait forever (if his mother will never approve of her, he’ll move on, too). So wait for a while, then when nothing happened, move on.

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    • Yeah confusing as it can.
      While people go through such situations.

      What would be your thoughts on the situation or your suggestion to the girl.

      Poems are by far most attractive stuff. You have done consistent in your work. Few months of last year I was off but I see you have done pretty good in your blog. And I am glad it makes you feel good as a writer to see your followers name pop up.

      Thanks for mentioning it.
      It made my day. πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ

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      • Sure you write so well.
        Literature flows from your fingers and very less often do we see good work in Hindi.
        Being someone who likes languages so much, I definitely feel inspired when I see someone with good command in language and expensive. You have both of them.


        Somehow the symphony of life helps to like minded people connect, often in ways least expected.

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